What about the Baby?

September 10, 2008 – 3:38 pm
Every mother wants the best for her baby, and they buy all sorts of toys to stimulate their interest and development, have attractive mobiles over the cot, and spend a fortune on a beautiful nursery, but what is really important to the baby? Birth must be the most important experience of our lives, and labour starts at the baby's say-so.  When it's lungs, kidneys, liver, etc. are completely mature, the baby releases a protein into the mother's system which stimulates the mother's production of oxytocin, the hormone which stimulates the uterine muscles to work, and this signals the beginning of the intricate and magical dance between the mother and the baby's reactions throughout the birthing process. As hypnobirthing offers the mother  a calm and gentle birth, so it does to the baby as well.  A drug free labour is good for the mother, there is less to recover from, but it is even more ...

Calm birth

August 16, 2008 – 8:05 pm
One of the things about hypnobirthing is that midwives are frequently fooled by the calmness of the mother.  When you call the hospital thinking it's time to go in, or when you call and ask the midwife to come to you for a home birth, what usually happens is that the father makes the call, then the person the other end says:  "Can I speak to her?"  If she is utterly calm they think, "Well, she's not ready to come in," so they say, "Go and have a nice warm bath and relax."  I've even heard of a midwife who said, "If she can still speak, she's not ready to come in."  Hypnobirthing mothers are calm, and can easily carry on a conversation, so midwives who are used to a mother at least catching her breath when she speaks don't realise how advanced she is.  However a hypnobirthing mother needs ...

Failed Induction

August 11, 2008 – 7:35 pm
'Just after my due date I was advised that, if I didn't have a sweep now I would have to be induced at term plus 10 days.'  (Note the 'have to be'.  What about the discussion of options, statstics for and against, informed consent.)  The sweep caused bleeding which resulted in immediate admission to hospital.  'I was advised I needed to be induced immediately, and if I went home I'd be putting my baby at risk.'  By this time the bleeding had stopped.  'After the first prostin I was told I couldn't go home.'  (Note the 'told I couldn't' rather than 'advised it would be unwise' with a discussion of the pros and cons and what could be done to make it safe.)  Three days later and three prostins and one prostin gel, still couldn't go home and was offered a c-section due to a 'failed induction.'  (Maybe because the ...

Hypnotherapy

August 10, 2008 – 11:09 am
I often think that the path a couple takes to reach a hypnobirthing course goes something like this: Before she gets pregnant, a woman has at the back of her mind that there's always a caesarean as a soft option. Then she gets pregnant, does a bit of research, and realises that a caesarean isn't a soft option, either for her, or for her baby. At the same time she starts to be bombarded with horror stories about labour and she has this awful sinking feeling that there's only one way out - and it's going to be painful.  Then someone at work says that her stepmother's cousin's niece did this thing called hypnobirthing, so she google's it and thinks, 'That sounds good, and it might be worth a try'.  When she announces this to her husband or partner he raises his eyes to heaven and thinks, 'What is ...

New hypnobirthing course in Teddington

August 6, 2008 – 8:11 am
After a weekend off last weekend, I'm really looking forward to the hypnobirthing class starting in Teddington this coming Saturday.  The centre where we work in Teddington is right beside the River Thames with a glass wall overlooking the river.  As I sit with my back to the river, I fondly imagine that the couples on the course are dwelling on my every word.  In fact, they're watching the boats go by, but that's as good a way to be relaxed as any, and then the hypnobirthing can easily be slipped in on top.  I think it's very important to teach in attractive places with a good feel to them, and to have yummy biscuits!  Hypnobirthing is so good, that everything about it needs to reflect that quality.

Membrane Sweep

August 2, 2008 – 9:36 pm
I had a lovely email today from one of the mothers I taught about her hypnobirthing birth.  The birth was drug free, pain free with no tearing and an amazing and wonderful experience, but her labour was 72 hours.  The baby arrived 4 days 'late'.  Since, apparently, 85% of babies arrive after the so-called due date, how can this be considered late?  Because the 'due date' had passed, a membrane sweep was suggested and agreed to.  She went into labour, and the baby took three days to arrive.  One can't help wondering whether the baby would have arrived at the same time, but with a much shorter labour, if it had been left to its own devices and not been chivved into the world.

Managing Pain

August 2, 2008 – 6:17 pm
'Managing Pain' is the phrase on the lips of every care provider for women in labour.  Why is it assumed that pain is there in the first place?  I am fully aware that many women experience extreme pain in labour, but consider this for a moment.  Every other muscle in the human body, working in the way it is intended, is comfortable.  Is it not illogical that the muscles of the uterus, working naturally as they are intended, are the only muscles in the human body that are painful?  It is a pretty bad design fault.  When you consider the miracle that is our body, how everything works together with such amazing complications to produce this wonderful simplicity and efficiency of movement, it seems very strange that one part does not work easily and well.  And that's the part which ensures the continuation of the human race.  Strange indeed. The basic ...

New Programme

July 21, 2008 – 3:06 pm
I know that the first thing a woman does when she discovers she's pregnant is log on to her PC and start googling!  This is why we now have our programme of hypnobirthing classes arranged right through to June 2009.    So do have a look.  There are convenient classes wherever you live in the London area. The Central London hypnobirthing class is near the South Bank and is very convenient for Waterloo and Waterloo East stations which serve most of the South of England.  Waterloo is also on the Bakerloo, Northern and Jubilee Lines, which covers almost the whole of London.  For people living in East London it's the most convenient class. The class is held on Sundays, because then you can park nearby on single yellow lines or free in parking bays. The class in North West London is at Triyoga near Primrose Hill.  This is convewnient for the Northern Line, and parking ...

Turning Breech Babies

June 30, 2008 – 9:28 pm
Had a lovley email at the end of last week.  On Wednesday I did some hypnotherapy work to turn a breech baby.  I often wonder who I'm talking to.  Is it the mother, or is it the baby?  And how can it possibly work?  The next morning I had an email from her saying the midwife had checked her and the baby had turned in the night.  Although one can suggest that it might be an easier and more comfortable birth for mother and baby if they do turn, it's also important to remember that the baby is the only person who really knows the correct position to be in.  They know the position of the cord, etc, and we don't.  So it's important to acknowledge that fact, and accept that they might already be in the best position for bith. We may not be able to explainhow it works, but ...

More Birth Stories

June 30, 2008 – 9:21 pm
I wasn't teaching HypnoBirthing this weekend;  I was camping in Cornwall with my family instead.  But it was lovely to have two new birth stories in my inbox when I got home and lots of enquiries as well.